Where to Meet Lesbians (2020)

There are so many queer women who have problems with finding a partner. One of the main ones is that there is 'not enough fish in the dating pool.' If you live in a big city like New Your or Los Angeles, you can meet quite many women from the LGBT community, but if you live in a town, this problem becomes apparent. Also, it is a common situation when a queer woman falls in love with her female friend, and they kiss on each other's cheeks and hold hand in hand, but then she says that she is straight. To avoid such situations and help lesbians find their true love, we prepared some dating tips concerning where you can meet lesbians.

Dating Apps

Thanks to social media development, we can get acquainted with different people no matter where they are. Online dating is becoming a more and more ordinary thing. Nowadays, there is a diversity of lesbian dating apps that have their pros and cons. It depends on you what lesbian dating app to use, but we strongly recommend you check whether it is legit or not. Here is our top of dating apps for lesbians:

To our mind, this is the best way to get acquainted with queer women. Thousands of lesbians use various dating apps, and here are pros of them:

• In a dating app, you can easier find people if you are shy. It's very embarrassing to talk to some stranger in the street, and it's difficult to choose the right words to impress the interlocutor.
• You can learn much more about a person by reading his filled questionnaire and looking at all one's photos. It also saves you time.
• You'll immediately know about one's first feelings for you, and if, in some cases, you are not attractive to one, you can start to chat with someone else.

Lesbian Bars and Clubs

If our arguments for getting acquainted with queer women online didn't convince you, then there are many ways to do it offline. There are many LGBT+ places to drink and make friends, but they are full of gays. The number of bars and clubs only for lesbians is not so large even in big cities, but if a lesbian searches for them on the internet, she'll find some of them. Lesbians purposefully go there knowing that they will be like a fish in the water. There are many lesbians who are just looking for a one-night-stand at such places, but some of them come there to find a future spouse. The lesbian bar is also suitable for shy lesbians who don't like to leave their comfort zone because the specific atmosphere and the wide choice of alcohol can relax almost anyone. But if there are no bars or clubs for lesbians in your area, come to any gay bar. Maybe you'll meet your dream girl in this great place.

Lesbian Meetups and Pride Parades

This is a good way to get acquainted with lesbians. Most of the participants of pride parades are strong-willed, smart, funny, and free. If you see a parade passing by, you won't be able to look away because they are bright and loud, and it can become a good memory for you both about your dating day. But do not deep into the event's action because someone wants to talk to you, which is your goal. Queer women also visit some local meetups where they discuss different issues or engage in some common cause. For learning about the nearest meetings, you can download Meetup. Using this app, you can also organize some meetings for lesbians by yourself.

Sport

Every day more and more people start to play sports. A healthy way of life became the mainstream; parks and sports clubs are full of sportsmen. Sport makes people feel cheerful, be fit, and look good. It's natural that not all female sportsmen are lesbians, but some of them are. A single is better to join a local female sports team, and even if she doesn't find a partner, she'll meet women who can recommend some familiar lesbians. Choose a sport based on your skills and interests. It is most useful to choose a sport where people interact with each other. This can be volleyball on a street playground near the house, or football, basketball, hockey, chess, and the like. The main thing is that you shouldn't feel hatred for it because everybody in a team will notice it.

Almost every city has activists who are interested in weekend hiking. Join a similar group, and you will meet new interesting women there. The main thing is to remember personal safety, and when joining such groups, read reviews on the Internet, and ask your friends. Take care of yourself. Otherwise, you risk falling into the hands of scammers.

LGBTQ+ Advocacy Group

Every day, people who are different from all others struggle for their free, happy life. After learning about your sexual orientation, strangers often cross some ethical boundaries and hurt lesbians. They like to ask silly questions such as ‚How does it feel?‘ ‚How do you do it?’, ’Do you think sex without a penis can be named sex?’ and whether lesbians’ parents know about it. Many people suddenly discover the talents of psychologists, Freudians come out of all the cracks, and the whole world at some point is eager to send you to the phallus. Lesbians also need to somehow come to terms with the fact that even their friends can express ideas like "you'll get over it," "you'll meet your Prince." For example, my best friend has known me all my life, but still once asked me why I was so offended by men. Some strong queer women decided to start supporting each other and created many organizations. You can find the main offices and join the groups. You can help yourself and other queer women by volunteering or transferring money for the organization's development. All in all, it is a great place to meet strong and cheerful lesbians.

Friends' Friends

This is an excellent way to find your date. If online dating sites offer you some strangers and take much time to know someone, getting acquainted with one following the relative‘s advice will be much more effortless. There are some advantages to this method of meeting people. Firstly, your relatives or friends have already got acquainted with this person, so they can tell you much more than one could know about oneself. If a person has some bad habits or some dark spots in one’s biography,  it’s a high chance you’ll learn it by chatting with your mutual acquaintance. Secondly, both of you have more topics to talk about! You can tell each other some stories concerning a person who introduced you to each other, and then you'll come to other related topics. This method's disadvantage is that this common acquaintance can constantly meddle in your relationship, which is not very cool. But it's a special case, so be brave and ask your parents, sisters, brothers, or just friends to recommend you someone, and maybe one will become your life companion.

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